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What an amazing talent Ms. Vy Higginsen is.  Cincinnati was proud to host SmartTalk Connected Conversation‘s Vy Higginsen to share her story with us.  From the minute she took the stage, she was electrifying.  The energy was palpable and she immediately captivated the audience.  And if you are one who is inspired by other strong women, wait until you hear Vy’s accomplishments!  What gives her that extra bit of “special” is that she not only accomplished monumental career goals, but many times, she was the trail-blazer, the first to ever do what she has done.  For instance, she was the first black female radio personality in the prime time New York City market on WBLS.  She was the first woman to host a morning show on New York radio at WWRL.  She was the first woman in advertising sales at Ebony magazine.  She was the first black woman to produce a drama on Broadway with Joe Tuner’s Come and Gone by August Wilson.  She was the first black female writer, producer, director of the longest-running, Off-Broadway musical in the history of American theater with Mama, I Want to Sing.

To accomplish one one of those goals individually is something that dreams are made of.  To accomplish these goals in multiples, along with being the first many times, is almost unfathomable.  Yet, her determination and perseverance paved the way to the incredible life she now leads.  She’s all about positive energy, and she sees her accomplishments in her mind long before she achieves them.

Vy also created the Mama Foundation, an organization that keeps gospel relevant and exciting for teens.  Realizing that it was someone’s responsibility to keep gospel music alive, Ms. Vy didn’t sit around and wait for someone to figure it out.  She did it herself.  Watch a clip of this magical collaboration:

Ms. Higginsen is an inspiration to anyone who has ever wanted to bless others.  She’s an inspiration for women in business.  She’s an inspiration for those whom like to take chances.  She’s a big thinker, and she makes things happen.  She certainly gains a spot in my collection of female mentors.  Incredible!

An enormous thank you to SmartTalk Connected Conversations for bringing insightful and amazing talent to Cincinnati.  Make sure and catch SmartTalk’s May feature in Cincinnati, with Andie MacDowell!   Purchase tickets here and spend and amazing night with the legendary Andie MacDowell on May 24th at the Aronoff Center for Arts!

I had the wonderful opportunity to sit down with amazingly talented Kara DioGuardi to discuss her upcoming SmartTalk Connected Conversations appearance in Cincinnati on March 22nd.

Hi Kara!  We are elated to have you as part of SmartTalk Connected Conversations here in Cincinnati.  I have to admit…you are very easy to promote!  Everyone loves you and we are so excited to have you.  I’m assuming that you no longer have a fear of public speaking at this point?

Thank you!  I’m excited to be a part of SmartTalk.  Yes, I have, for the most part, gotten over the fear of public speaking, but it’s always there to some degree.  What makes me overcome the fear is connecting to the audience.  I still say to people…you are this excited to see me? It’s always great connecting to the fans.

Even in a smaller market, like Cincinnati, people in the “industry”, whether it be our local news, being cast for commercials, etc., I’ve learned it can be a very cut-throat industry.  I’m sure this must be 10 fold in larger markets like LA and NYC.  Have you witnessed extreme cut-throat behavior in Hollywood?  And are women worse than men?

Oh definitely!  I’ve definitely seen cut-throat behavior.  But I think that many times, it’s not cut-throat just for the sake of being cut-throat.  When someone is very driven, they don’t let anyone or anything stop them, and I think this can be misconstrued as being cut-throat.  But when you’ve pounded on your craft and you have drive, nothing can stop you or get in your way.  So that can be considered as cut-throat at times.

In addition to your drive for success, I can see you are very successful in keeping your body looking top-notch!  I was surprised to see you once used food as your crutch.  Can you tell me your workout routine?  It’s working for you!  You look sensational.

I really started to notice my body transform when I did Chicago on Broadway.  The constant dancing and moving really transformed my body, and I’m so thankful for that.  But I also workout and eat well, too.  I exercise about 3-4 days a week.  I rotate cardio (although I have a back issue, and that makes running for more than 2-3 miles difficult) and weights.  As I’ve gotten older, I’ve incorporated weights into my routine, and that’s helped so much.  And I eat healthy.  But I don’t go crazy with it.

One thing I adore about you is your “tell it like it is” attitude.  There is absolutely zero pretentious behavior with you and I love that!  We’ve heard the stories of diva-like behavior from celebs…anyone you want to call out for having bad behavior?

There are definitely those out there with their fair share of bad attitudes.  But honestly, I think that one’s drive can be misconstrued as diva-like behavior.  When you are driven, you don’t let anyone stand in your way.  If you have to be blunt and direct, than so be it.  When you have drive, which is key, nothing is going to stop you or get in your way.  So I think that can be perceived as bad behavior at times, but really, it’s just drive.

I have often wondered if ultra-successful are born with a mental edge.  Did they always know they had a little extra “something”?  Did you always know you’d be a star or this ultra successful?

I think that develops over time.  When you become very good at your craft, there is a confidence that develops and confirms those thoughts in your head.  Again, though, I think it’s the constant hammering at your skills, your craft, that you develop that “knowing” that you are a star.  I always knew I was very good at what I do.  I don’t think I went into it thinking I’d have this amount of fame, but I am very driven.

SmartTalk audiences are filled with success-seeking women, all wanting to know what it takes to get that edge in life?  What separates the every day people from the people who are making things happen in their careers.  Can you identify what you think that edge is?

Simply put, it’s all about drive.  It’s about how much time you are willing to spend on your craft or to develop your talent that gives you that extra edge.  We’ve all watched people who have had loads of talent, yet don’t have the gumption to apply themselves.  That’s the difference between people who are accomplishing their goals and those who are not.  You have to develop a discipline of drive, or you’ll go nowhere.

Just last week, we witnessed the horrific passing of the great Whitney Houston.  Were you a fan?

Such a huge loss to music and the world.  I was a huge Whitney fan.  I remember sitting in my bedroom as a teenager listening to her records over and over.  She had a beautiful and unique voice, and she will sorely be missed by all.  Her passing was a tragedy.

I see you married someone who is not in your industry.  Do you find that it’s easier to be married to someone who is not in your line of work?

It’s a perfect fit!  My husband is a teacher/contractor/artist, so he’s a very creative type.  We relate on that aspect very well.  But I love coming home from work and sitting at the dinner table and talking about something that isn’t music related.  When you are with someone in the same industry, your life becomes about “did you see that new artist”, “did you hear that new song”, etc.  So it’s been really great to have someone that I can relate to creatively, yet someone who isn’t in the same industry as I am.   He gives me the space that I need to conduct such a busy life, and I give him his space.  Plus, we married a little older, and you really know yourself so much better.  I’m in such a good place!

To hear more from Kara DioGuardi, join us on March 22nd with SmartTalk Connected Conversations at the Aronoff in Cincinnati!

So I was hanging out with Tim Gunn the other night…yes, that Tim Gunn, and yes, I was really hanging out with him!  Tim Gunn was in Cincinnati to kick off the SmartTalk Connected Conversation Series at the Aronoff.  Tim packed the house with the VIP reception party prior to the event.  Gracious as ever, he really took the time to meet people, ask them questions, sign portfolios, and even encourage some design students that were hanging on his every word (understandably).  I envision those young fashion design students to be dedicating their early influencers to Mr. Gunn.  Tim was everything a star should be…kind, gracious to his fans, and engaging.

Tim’s speech was equally engaging, as he shared his experiences at Parsons, Fashion Runway, Tim Gunn’s Guide To Style, and Hollywood.  Tim’s style is to “make it work” for your particular body style.  He isn’t trying to push a near-skeletal frame to women, insisting that it’s the only way fashion will work on a woman’s body.  Instead, he personalizes style more to the individual.  And he delivers it all with his unmistakable “Tim Gunn” charm.   He has a confidence that just oozes from him.  Classy, yet not stuffy.  Kind to the core.  Kudos to SmartTalk on thinking out of the box with January’s speaker (first male celebrity ever!)  Join us in February as SmartTalk welcomes Arianna Huffington to the Aronoff in Cincinnati.  Click here for tickets and information.

Tim Gunn will be at Cincinnati’s Aronoff Theater on January 14th for a night of fun and insight with SmartTalk Connected Conversations.   SmartTalk has been bringing women together to experience the power of the spoken word since 1991. In the past several years, SmartTalk has grown into one of the most powerful and entertaining live events in the nation. The core mission of SmartTalk stems from the idea that women are inspired by the heart and voice of other remarkable women. In fact, we became more than just a lecture series but a series of connected conversations. These thoughts, stories and pieces of advice shared face to face create invaluable connected conversations that truly renew, enrich and uplift the spirit.

You have a chance to win tickets to see Tim Gunn!  Simply leave a comment and let us know you want to see Tim!  A name will be drawn at random, and the winner will receive two tickets to attend the show.  Good luck!

Looking for the perfect gift for the fashionista in your life?  SmartTalk will bring the sensational Tim Gunn to Cincinnati on January 14th, and there’s no time like the present to get tickets…and save.  Shop SmartTalk’s Holiday sale for 20% off tickets – starting Tuesday November 18^th.    Simply use “SANTA” to get the discount.  Shop now and save big!

Cincinnati is gearing up for its 2012 season with some of the biggest names in show business.  Smart Talk Connected Conversations is bringing the above noted speakers to the Aronoff from January through May 2012.  What could be better than hearing fabulous celebs sharing their stories with you and then a personal meet and greet photo opportunity?  How about discounted tickets?!  Simply use the code SB2012 when purchasing tickets to receive your tickets at VIP pricing.  Join us January through May for the hottest ticket in Cincinnati.

Generation X, commonly abbreviated to Gen X, is the generation born after the Western post World War II baby boom ended. While there is no universally agreed upon time frame, the term generally includes people born in the 1960s through the late ’70s. Gen X’ers have proven to behave differently than any other generation in history in that almost half of them are opting to be childless. About 43% of Gen X women have no children.  This is largely attributed to women delving into their careers. One difference between the 1950s housewife and a 2011 career girl is that women don’t need to “couple up” in order to survive.  In many instances, women are earning far more than their male counterparts.  But this doesn’t come without a price.  Because of 60 hour work weeks and more often than not, crushing student loan debt, women barely have enough time to take care of themselves, let alone other human beings.  Families are certainly shrinking in size, and with 43% of our Gen X’ers without children, we shall surely see the effects of this in our society in 10 years.  Interesting!  Did you opt for career of children?  Or both?

Need some inspiration to start that business or follow your dream?  If you take a chance and are successful, you could join the ranks of Forbes Magazine’s Highest Earning Women.  Take a look at their W2′s for the year and see if it inspires you to follow your dream!

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Miss Oprah, a longtime reigning breadwinner earned a cool $290 million.

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Second on the highest earners list is Lady Gaga.  For this female artist, going against the grain and being outrageous has proven mega success, and a $90 million dollar paycheck this year.

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Breakout reality TV star Bethenny Frankel surprises the masses with her genius brand marketing of Skinny Girl that padded her checking account with $55 million dollars this year.

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Throwing the notion, beauty is only skin deep, to the curb, Gisele Bundchen made $45 million dollars off of her appearance this year.

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Ellen DeGeneres tickled our funny bones to the tune of $45 million dollars.

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Our great partners at Smart Talk Connected Conversations have been working very hard to line up the best speakers for Cincinnati’s 2012 season!  Get your first sneak peek right here!  Great ready for an amazing season with the following amazing speakers!  More info to follow….stay tunned!

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Tim Gunn

Gunn’s Golden Rules

Saturday, January 14, 2012

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Arianna Huffington

On Becoming Fearless in Love, Work & Life

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

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Kara DioGuardi

Surviving Life, Love & American Idol

Thursday, March 22, 2012

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Vy Higginsen

Seeing No Limitations

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

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Andie MacDowell

Acting as a Way of Life

Thursday, May 24, 2012

Neurologist have found that the brain cannot decipher between actually doing something that makes you happy or just thinking about it.  And that’s good news if you aren’t particularly happy with _______ (insert any pain-in-the-tail item here).  If you are not in your sweet spot in life, then imagine yourself being there. 

When you open yourself up and think deeply, ask yourself what it is that you’d do or have if failure was not an option.  A new house, a new relationship, a new body shape, a masters degree?  What do you want, specifically?  Think about how you you’d decorate your new house.  Think about the clothes you’ll wear with your new body.  Think about how you want to be treated in your next relationship.  Imagine it.  Get into the moment of it. 

You become your thoughts.  Whatever it is that you think of all day, that’s what you’ll bring into your life.  If you are thinking about bills, about being late to work, about how bad work is once you get there, and about how much weight you’ve gained….this is the energy your are providing for your brain.  Luckily, the exact opposite works, too.  Think about routes of cash flowing into your life.  Think about your ability to land a better job where you can use your talents better.  Think about how responsible you are and how you are always on time.  Positive energy works, and it works every single time.   Think yourself into a better state of mind, and therefore, a better overall life.  There’s nothing wrong with faking it until you make it!